i'm a person who believes that everyone has the right to make choices, whether its right or wrong, coz at the end of the day, its their own choice. and because of that, everyone is different with a different destiny.. if not, everyone will be like robots right?
last nite's dinner, there is this one friend sharing the same table with me. well, we do not really know each other that well as we are kinda of the "hi" "bye" kind. in many of the topics he had with other friends, they almost end up in arguments as he tried to impose his beliefs and thinking onto others, and commented that others were wrong if they do this or that. one of my friends decided to cut the "argument" by leaving the table and join another, and the other was pissed off totally..
in real life, nothing is so clear cut into black or white. grey areas are everywhere and where you want to be in depends on yourself, and you just have to be accountable for your own decisions and actions as there is no one to blame but yourself. others may influence you, but ultimately, the choice is yours.