when i'm on the train or bus, if there is a choice to sit beside a male or a female, i'll def choose the latter. there is a tendency of some guys to occupy additional space that belongs to me, ie either they open their legs so wide that half of my butt is off the seat or that they fold their arms to try to squeeze more space from me! TMD! i pay the same fare as them so i dun understand why they cannot be more considerate to at least let me have a proper seat and not having to arm-to-arm, shoulder-to-shoulder... i hate it coz when i'm trying to sleep, a slight movement of them will wake me up. else it just make me so uncomfortable...

at least gals dun behave that way and usually i have a more pleasant journey with my fair share of personal space...