my guess is correct..

my mum complained to me about my father even before i finished having my dinner. i sort of expect her to rant at me during my meal and i'm soooooooo correct! this time round wat happened? its regarding the tuition fees of my brother. $80. my father kinda refuse to pay it and my mum is ranting non-stop. (the conversation below have been translated to english from chinese to the best of my ability and memory)

"wat a father! dun even want to pay the tuition fees for his son... everything also want me to pay.."

"if i were WJ (my brothers initials), i'll NOT call him father! did not even spend a single cent on me. wat a LJ father! pui!"

"every month sure need to quarrel with him to get the house-keeping money. today is the 3rd already still dun want to give.. give me only $400 where got enough? i work and have to contribute.. cannot even save.."

"your father is so unfair. only groom you and not WJ. where got such a father one?"

many many more... i lazy to type out..

i'm sick of all these. really... every month there is SURE to be a quarrel over money. i dunno when will all these nonsense gonna stop. i've not gave them $$$ yet except for the contribution i put into last month for the washing machine. i'm decided i'm going to give my dad $250 and my mum $150. why the difference? bec my dad pay for my everything! he gave me about that much every month for pocket money last time when i was in university of its fair enough that i give him back as much. my mum? nah!! she NEVER gave me a single cent. i'm already kind enought to give her $150. before i even got myself a job, she actually have the cheek to tell me

"hey.. next time u work hor u must give me money leh.." she said in a demanding tone.

"how much you want/expecting?" i asked.

"at least $500 - $800 lah.. my friends the children give so much one.." she said.

thinking in my brain: "WTF!!?? $500-$800?? who do u think you are? or what job do u think i'll get? $5000 per month as a fresh graduate?"

i tell her "cannot lah!! i got tution loans to repay! $18000 leh!! also i need to save up if i want to get married next time! NO ONE is going to give me money next time to buy a house, not even my father, so i cannot give u so much..."

"then at least $200 lah..."

i kept quiet.

ayway i BET with you all that she will 100% pick up a fuss saying i give her so little, and sure will complain that she get less than my dad. she will tell the whole world that she pitifully gets only $150. well... no point giving her more as no matter what she will still complain... so give so much for what? she will complain and complain and complain....

HELLO!!?? u got give me a single cent from young till now? u think i'll forget how harshly u treated me last time when i was young? u think i'll forget those cane bruises and flying kicks that you gave me as though i'm a dog? all your verbal abuses u think its momentary?

the answer is simple: NO!

and you should be happy that i actually decided to give u $150. dun want? return me the money and go complain as much as u like. dun take my money yet go around saying i'm not filial.

go fuck the wall man!